Approaches
to Developing Your Strengths and Talents
In your quest for personal
development, you'll spend some time thinking about the things that you do
well, as well as certain things that you could do better. These are your
strengths and talents. Over the course of your life, you'll develop new
strengths and talents, and the way you identify
yourself may change as a result.
It is
important to objectively, and with an unbiased mind, evaluate your true
strengths and talents. In addition, it is important to evaluate your weaknesses
as well. By truly understanding your strengths and talents, while at the same
time, identifying your weaknesses, you will be better able to develop an
approach that will yield a more well-rounded set of skills and talents.
What are
Strengths and Talents?
Quite
simply, strengths and talents are the things you're good at. This can include
everything from parenting and mediating conflicts to surfing and playing the
cello. In large part, our strengths and talents serve to form our personal
identities. By developing your ability to program computers, for example,
you'll one day be able to identify yourself as a computer programmer.
Why
Develop Your Strengths and Talents?
The main
reason for developing strengths and talents is that doing so will grant you
access to new activities and events that were previously out of your reach.
Since life can be defined as the sum total of the experiences we pack into our
stay on this Earth, why not make these experiences as diverse and enriching as
possible? Why settle for just a few experiences when, by your own choosing, you
can have access to many more?
Here are a
few other specific reasons why it pays to develop strengths and talents:
- When you're good at something,
it becomes significantly more enjoyable.
- Practical strengths, such as
automobile repair or personal finance, will save you incredible amounts of
money and time over the course of your life.
- Other talents, such as playing a
musical instrument or a sport, will add diversity and meaning to your
life.
- You'll have access to far more career
opportunities, particularly the ones you want to pursue most.
- You'll be less reliant on others
and more reliant on yourself, the only person that you'll always have
complete control over.
- When you become stressed, you
can reach for one of your talents to calm your mind and soothe your
worries.
How to
Develop Your Strengths and Talents
Although
developing strengths and talents can be very challenging and even frustrating,
the rewards associated with achieving mastery in any discipline will be more
than worth the effort. However, it's important not to overwhelm yourself by
focusing on too many strengths at once, or obsessing over a single discipline
to the point where it becomes unenjoyable. Try these simple steps to start
developing your strengths and talents:
- Consider your current strengths
and talents.Take
the things you currently enjoy and excel at and amplify these aspects of
your life. Do you enjoy tennis? If so, your enjoyment will only increase as
your mastery of the sport increases - not only because you'll win more
often, but because you'll receive more satisfaction from every moment of
the activity.
- Choose a few areas you'd like to
develop.As your
journey toward self-improvement continues,
you may be tempted to develop more strengths and talents than you can
possibly manage at the same time. Instead, choose just a few areas that
you feel are deserving of your immediate attention, and that will provide
a more immediate payoff. Remember, you'll have plenty of time to develop
other strengths later.
- Ask for help.It's pointless to stick to your
own devices while developing your strengths and talents. If you're
improving your soccer skills, seek the help of a trainer. If you're
learning calculus, work with a math tutor. If you're learning an
instrument, find others at a similar level of capability and learn and
play together.
- Maintain your strengths.Many of the skills you develop
will deteriorate over time if you don't practice them regularly. Make a
point of keeping your most valued strengths strong.
Strengths
and talents are crucially important because they allow you to interact with
your environment more meaningfully and enjoyably. By building your strengths
and talents, you make yourself more
employable in your professional life and more useful and diverse in
your personal life.
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